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美國義工和中國義工的區別 (這個態度,我們也可以用在我們身邊的人)

也許我們都覺得做義工很幸福,把愛心傳遞給別人,這裡就要聽一下一位中國義工的真實經歷,他和一位美國的義工一起去盧旺達時候的故事。

盧旺達的貧寒場面可能對於一般人只能想像,中國的義工下了卡車以後,看到一位瘦骨嶙峋,衣不蔽體的黑人男孩朝他們跑來,那個男孩很少看到這樣的大卡車。頓時,義工動了憐憫之心,轉身就去拿了車上的物品向小男孩走去。

你要幹什麼?美國義工大聲呵斥,放下!

中國義工愣住了。他不知道這是怎麼了,我們不是要來做慈善工作嗎?

美國義工朝小男孩俯下身子,你好,我們從很遠的地方來,車上有很多東西,你能幫我們搬下來嗎?我們會付報酬的。

小男孩遲疑在原地,這時又有不少孩子跑來,美國義工又對他們說了一遍相同的話。有個孩子就嘗試從車上往下搬了一桶餅乾。

美國義工拿起一床棉被和一桶餅乾遞給他,說:非常感謝你,這是獎勵你的,其他人願意一起幫忙嗎?

其他孩子也都勁頭十足一擁而上,沒多久就卸貨完畢,義工給每個孩子一份救濟物品。

這時又來了一個孩子,看到卡車上已經沒有貨物可以幫忙搬了,覺得十分失望。

美國義工對他說:你看,大家都干累了,你可以為我們唱首歌嗎?你的歌聲會讓我們快樂!

孩子唱了首當地的歌,義工照樣也給了他一份物品:謝謝,你的歌聲很美妙。

中國義工看?這些若有所思。

晚上美國義工對他說:對不起,我為早上的態度向你道歉,我不該那麼大聲對你說話。但你知道嗎?這裡的孩子陷在貧窮里,不是他們的過錯,可如果因為你輕而易舉就把東西給他們,讓他們以為貧窮可以成為不勞而獲的謀生手段,因而更加貧窮,這就是你的錯!

這天,來自中國得到義工度過了不尋常的一天。

記得曾經,覺得獻愛心很光榮,很開心,但是真的身量足夠嗎?還是為了滿足自己的熱心?

1.首先要學會公平對待自己。

我們自己還陷在多少的貧窮里?童年受委屈了?什麼事情受刺激了?...

2.公平對待別人。

對待一個人最好的的方法就是幫助他適應環境,積極應對現在和將來,不因對方過去受到傷害就特殊對待,這樣他的將來也會被特殊化,那是極不公平的。

如果身邊有賴在一些問題上不走的人,那麼放手給他時間,不要去寵溺。

3.這位義工其實還是把東西白白給孩子的,可他要求他們勞動。

這些孩子通過勞動會思考擺脫貧窮的道路和方法,如果一開始就把救濟物資分發給他們,則給他們看到了好逸惡勞的陰謀,貧窮便趁機囚禁了他們。

 

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Title : What is really meant by Help

U.S. volunteers and Chinese volunteers difference ( this attitude , we can also be used in people around us )

Maybe we all feel very happy volunteer , the love to pass to someone else, here we must listen to a Chinese volunteers real experience , he and a volunteer went to the United States when the story of Rwanda .

Rwanda 's poor spectacle for the average person could only imagine the Chinese volunteers under the truck , I saw an emaciated , naked black boy came running toward them , the boy rarely see such a big truck . Suddenly, the volunteers moved compassion , and turned the car took the items went to the little boy went.

" What are you doing ? " American volunteers shouted , " put down ! "

Chinese volunteers in amazement. He did not know how it is , we do not want to do charity work ?

U.S. volunteer leaned toward the little boy , " Hello , we come from very far away , the car has a lot of things , you help us to move down for me ? We'll unpaid for ."

Little boy hesitated in place , then there are many children came , he said to them American volunteers again the same words . Just try to have a baby from the car to move down the barrel of biscuits.

U.S. volunteers picked up a blanket and a bucket of biscuits handed him and said: " Thank you very much , this is the reward you , others are willing to help you with ? "

Other children are also avid surrounded them , not long afterwards the volunteers give each child a relief items .

Then came a child, saw the truck has no goods can be moved to help , I feel very disappointed .

American volunteer said to him: "You see , everyone dry tired, you can sing a song for us to do ? Your song will make us happy ! "

Local children sing the first song, volunteers also gave him a still items: "Thank you, your song is very beautiful ."

Chinese volunteers look ? These thoughtfully .

American volunteer night and said to him : "I'm sorry , I apologize to you the attitude of the morning , I should not talk so loud for you , but you know what ? Place where children stuck in poverty , not their fault , but if because you easily put something to them , so that they can become something for nothing that poverty means of livelihood , and thus more poverty, this is your fault ! "

That day, the volunteers spent from China got an unusual day.

I remember once , I feel " love" very proud , very happy, but it is really sufficient stature to do ? Or to satisfy their enthusiasm ?

1 First, learn to fair treatment themselves.

How much we still stuck in the "poverty " in ? Childhood wronged ? Stimulated by what ? ...

Sometimes say that it seems to have found a very good reason , I need compassion, I need to be concerned , and I need to heal .

No one can pay for our past , everyone has their own past. In the past a lot of things is not our fault , but if so we let ourselves stuck in self-pity , it would be doubly wrong . Healed the first step is to their willingness to be released, otherwise we will be friends around us away .

(2) fair treatment of others .

Many others are not caused by us in the past , because in the past do not need each other's experiences , we condone , laissez-faire , over and over again to listen to complaints, alms own time and energy .

Treat a person the best way is to help him adapt to the environment and actively respond to the present and future , not because of past hurt each other on special treatment , so that he will be the future of specialization , it is extremely unfair .

If the side depends on some issues people do not go , then let go and give him time , do not go spoiled .

3 The volunteers actually still put things in vain to the child , but he asked them to work .

These children will be thinking out of poverty through labor roads and method, if the outset of relief supplies distributed to them , then they saw the indolent to conspiracy , the poor should take the opportunity to imprison them.